Last Saturday was the latest edition of Harsh, and yeah, there were a lot of events going on that weekend—but we still had a really solid crowd. Not massive, but good. And the guys who came? They weren’t just there to watch. They came to play. And they did.
It started slow. People filtered in bit by bit, some grabbing a drink first, others heading straight to chang into gear. The night built up steadily. Soon enough, scenes started forming—electro, flogging, single tail whipping, bondage—you name it. A mix of heavy and light, intense and teasing, and all of it just added to the raw, horny energy of the place. There was some gear worship going on, and a bit of sex too—which is exactly the kind of open, no-judgment atmosphere we want for Harsh.
We’ve started adding some bondage gear people can actually use during the party. The first piece we brought in? A proper leather suspension harness, rigged right in the middle of the dance floor next to the bar. Early in the night, Vito was suspended in full rubber, wearing a gas mask and getting worked over with electro. It made for one hell of a show—especially for anyone sitting at the bar. A few others used it too later in the night, and we’d love to see more people give it a go next time.
And despite the heat outside, rubber was everywhere. Some guys really went all in—one guy even wore full motorcycle leathers, which honestly made me feel slightly underdressed in my skingear. But that’s the fun of Harsh—people show up in what makes them feel sexy. And yes, the spot next to the air conditioning at the bar was definitely the most popular place to hang out between scenes.
So no, this wasn’t the busiest night we’ve had. But it was one of the most connected, most playful, and just plain real. Harsh isn’t about high numbers—it’s about making space for people who are into serious play, gear, kink, and expression. And last Saturday, that’s exactly what we had.
If you want to join or have any questions, don’t hesitate to ask!
Check out www.harshtime.nl for more info. Tickets are pre-sold online using a token that I can give you. Regular sales start two weeks before the party.
TL;DR
- Not the biggest crowd, but a lot of people came to play
- Bondage, electro, flogging, whipping, and some hot gear worship
- First use of our leather suspension harness!
- Full rubber and leather despite the heat (respect!)
- Harsh stays true to what it’s about: a space for real BDSM